Relationships
Why you keep going back to people who treat you badly
That pull towards someone who runs hot and cold usually isn't love. More often it's your nervous system recognising something familiar.
Self-growth · Relationships · Motivation · Money
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I'm Henry. I make short videos about the things people think but don't say out loud: why you keep picking the wrong partner, why your motivation runs dry by Wednesday, why the money never sticks. This is where the longer version lives.
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I make the videos people forward to a mate with the caption “this is literally you”. I talk about relationships, motivation and money the way a good friend would across a pub table: honestly, without the therapy-speak, and with one thing you can actually do about it by Friday.
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